Comments for Womanonfire's Weblog http://womanonfire.wordpress.com Just another WordPress.com weblog Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:20:29 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Dealing with Misinterpretations – Tool 1 by womanonfire http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/2008/09/28/dealing-with-misinterpretations-tool-1/#comment-20 womanonfire Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:20:29 +0000 http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/?p=60#comment-20 Hi SImon I think as survivors we have a lot of safety behaviours that fill our life. The problem is the danger is gone and the safety behaviours only keep us from realising the danger IS gone. What are you safety behaviours? How might you test whether they are still needed? Hi SImon

I think as survivors we have a lot of safety behaviours that fill our life. The problem is the danger is gone and the safety behaviours only keep us from realising the danger IS gone. What are you safety behaviours? How might you test whether they are still needed?

]]> Comment on This is me by Julie in Virginia http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/about/#comment-8 Julie in Virginia Tue, 07 Oct 2008 00:41:54 +0000 #comment-8 I am rambling with you sister :) I am rambling with you sister :)

]]> Comment on Dealing with Misinterpretations – Tool 1 by SImon http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/2008/09/28/dealing-with-misinterpretations-tool-1/#comment-5 SImon Tue, 30 Sep 2008 17:09:02 +0000 http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/?p=60#comment-5 Hi there, male survivor here. I read the bit about texting and waiting for a reply and that totally relates to me. Sometimes i think that my whole life hangs in the balance, and once i get a reply im safe again. Hi there, male survivor here.

I read the bit about texting and waiting for a reply and that totally relates to me. Sometimes i think that my whole life hangs in the balance, and once i get a reply im safe again.

]]> Comment on Eternal Mothering by lionest http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/2008/09/28/eternal-mothering/#comment-4 lionest Sun, 28 Sep 2008 21:39:52 +0000 http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/?p=68#comment-4 Wonderful. What a grace! Yes She mothered us, little girls we are... Thanks. Wonderful. What a grace! Yes She mothered us, little girls we are…
Thanks.

]]> Comment on Dealing with Misinterpretations – Tool 1 by lionest http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/2008/09/28/dealing-with-misinterpretations-tool-1/#comment-3 lionest Sun, 28 Sep 2008 21:37:07 +0000 http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/?p=60#comment-3 I got the same problem as you, that tends to disappear. I manage in totally be indifferent to what people could think about myself. I express myself, with the most respect I can, and after all, who couldn't be criticized at the end? Thinking we are stupid could lead the Other to feel it, and finally use it incounsciously. Wishing well. I got the same problem as you, that tends to disappear. I manage in totally be indifferent to what people could think about myself. I express myself, with the most respect I can, and after all, who couldn’t be criticized at the end?
Thinking we are stupid could lead the Other to feel it, and finally use it incounsciously.
Wishing well.

]]> Comment on Inner Child Healing – Part 1 by D L Ennis http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/inner-child-healing-part-1/#comment-2 D L Ennis Sat, 27 Sep 2008 22:37:00 +0000 http://womanonfire.wordpress.com/?p=44#comment-2 Oh, how I understand this! Keep writing...it does help! Oh, how I understand this! Keep writing…it does help!

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