Well I had another healing crisis over christmas lasting into February and it seems to have done the trick…that and some medication anyhow. My values have had an enormous shift into the spiritual realm and I have stopped chasing this and that. I no longer seem driven by my desires to have more and more. I am resting in my soul. Trusting in God, the Universal Source, and life…well with trust life is SSSOOOOOO much easier.
I feel fully in my body and grounded and rooted into my boots. I have never felt like this…and let me tell you it feels great.
I’m no longer running away from myself…or from God. In fact my mantra at the moment is “I rest safely in God and in God I am forever safe”.
I have been exploring judgement of which I have had a big fear and I have realised this week that for me judgement means rejection and rejection means I dont fit in which then becomes a survival issue for me. If I dont fit in that threatens my survival. Of course this is the attitude of a child and I am no longer a child. I plan to hold a ceremony for my childhood and release the patterns from my past in a fire ritual. It is time to do a whole host of letting go. Letting go of my woundology beliefs, letting go of my need to fit in, letting go of the child I was and becoming fully the woman I am. I want to honour the child I was in this way because she taught me so much and I love her but it is time to lay the past to rest be the strong, sensitive woman God has made me into.
Letting go of the need to fit in and instead having a preference to fit in feels like it has brought a big shift for me. I do NOT have to fit with EVERYBODY and if I dislike some people well so be it and if they dislike me well so be that. It’s okay. I haven’t got to fix or alter myself to try to fit. I can be me and just walk away and that’s okay. Swans, and hens and cats just do not go together and that too is OKAY!
And what’s more I have found my true voice. My voice. I have always been swayed by other people who had stronger personalities than me and noticed myself try to adopt their voice in writing. Thinking their way was better than mine and if I adopted their way I would fit in. I think maybe I was attracted to their power. How silly of me lol. Obviously I was disowning my own power, and projecting it onto others and not allowing the power of my own voice to shine through. Shine on.
*breathe*
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